Jayden K Smith’s Facebook friendship request – not a hacker, it’s a hoax

Check your facts before you spread a hoax on social media.

Jayden K Smith Facebook hoax

My wife left me in charge of her iPad today, as I was assigned to “fix a few things on it”.

It sat untouched on the side of my desk and then suddenly burbled up a couple of very similar Facebook notifications. Two of my wife’s acquaintances had shared a message warning all of their Messenger contacts to be on the look out for a “hacker” called Jayden K Smith who was allegedly sending out friendship requests.

Here is the message they shared:

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Please tell all the contacts in your messenger list not to accept Jayden K. Smith friendship request. He is a hacker and has the system connected to your Facebook account. If one of your contacts accepts it, you will also be hacked, so make sure that all your friends know it. Thanks. Forwarded as received.

Hold your finger down on the message. At the bottom in the middle it will say forward. Hit that then click on the names of those in your list and it will send to them

It’s obvious to me, and I imagine a large number of readers, that this is nonsense. Accepting someone’s friendship request on Facebook doesn’t hack your account or computer. Of course you should always be careful who you add as a friend on social networks (and be aware that it might be a ne’er-do-well posing posing as somebody you know), but warnings like this are useless.

Imagine for a second that this could actually hack accounts, if you were a hacker why would you keep using the same name with each friendship request? What’s to stop the hacker choosing a different name once millions of Facebook users have warned each other that the person to look out for is Jayden K Smith?

The problem with people sharing these types of warnings is that there is no way to correct them, no way for them to be repealed if the facts are found to have changed or if the mysterious hacker adopts a new disguise. A genuine warning would link to a legitimate security vendor’s advisory – but these hoaxes never do.

As we’ve all discovered over the years, it’s too easy to share too much on social networks like Facebook. Many people are too lazy to check the facts for themselves and so share hoax warnings like this without thinking, because it’s a lot less effort just to hit the “Share” or “Forward” button.

I’m sure these warnings are often shared with the best intentions, but if you truly care about your Facebook friends check the veracity of what you’re sharing with a credible source *before* you share it. After all, you don’t want to be the purveyor of fake news, do you?

And, what do you know, just as I reach to hit “publish” on this article I see another of my wife’s acquaintances sharing a different type of Facebook scam…

Delta scam


Graham Cluley is an award-winning keynote speaker who has given presentations around the world about cybersecurity, hackers, and online privacy. A veteran of the computer security industry since the early 1990s, he wrote the first ever version of Dr Solomon's Anti-Virus Toolkit for Windows, makes regular media appearances, and is the co-host of the popular "Smashing Security" podcast. Follow him on Twitter, Mastodon, Threads, Bluesky, or drop him an email.

4 comments on “Jayden K Smith’s Facebook friendship request – not a hacker, it’s a hoax”

  1. Chris

    So where are you going with your free Delta Airlines tickets then Graham?

    1. Mark Jacobs · in reply to Chris

      Perhaps to see the latest blockbuster starring Will and his son, Jayden Smith (deliberately misspelt!).

  2. IanB

    Saw another old Facebook favourite, the anniversary Lidl voucher, pop up this week too. Maybe Jayden is sending them?

  3. Pete Freeman

    I had this, the Jayden Smith message. My very first Facebook hoax, and identified as such immediately even before I looked it up on Google. My biggest concern was whether to contact the sender and how to explain the word "gullible" without giving offence :)

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